Given the previous scenario, neither Comcast nor Surewest wants to own that server. If Comcast owns that server, then it is serving Jennifer for free. If Surewest owns that server, then it is serving John for free.
The solution is actually quite simple. Comcast has its email server, and Surewest has its own. This is what happens, then:
Now, both companies are happy because they only serve their own customers.